BREAKING DOWN BARRIERS
By Frank
Deaver
Rotary Club of Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA
On a major university campus in the United States, there is a
Rotary-sponsored international student center, providing dormitory
rooms for students from around the world. Some of them come from
countries not on good relations with each other. In that shared
residence, students arrive with the baggage of their respective
homelands, but they soon learn to look beyond political and
governmental confrontations. They find themselves replacing
preconceived notions of distrust with individual respect.
A Muslim from Pakistan and a Hindu from India put aside
political and religious differences as their shared interest in
engineering draws them into a personal friendship. A Turk and a
Greek bond in mutual respect and friendship, seeing each other
individually and no longer through the stereotypes of their national
rivalries.
In this residential environment, international understanding
emerges as misunderstanding fades into the background.
February is identified in Rotary as World Understanding
Month. Much is being written and said encouraging greater
understanding and extolling its benefits. But in many cases,
understanding can be accomplished only as misunderstanding is
recognized and put aside.
The story is told that during the 1980-88 Iran-Iraq war, soccer
teams from the warring countries were matched in tournament play.
These were athletes, not soldiers, now facing each other on the
field of athletic battle. Each team fought desperately to penetrate
the opposition’s defense, but the game ended in a scoreless tie.
A newspaper headline placed the outcome in international
perspective: “Nobody won, but nobody died.”
The account may or may not be accurate in all details, but it
illustrates the humanity of all people, whatever their differences.
Whatever our differences, the challenge of understanding is to focus
on our commonalities rather than on our differences.
Two Rotary Districts, by their very structure, illustrate the
challenge to understanding.
(1) Rotarians in District 2450 are fond of claiming the
distinction that their district includes clubs on three continents.
Nine countries of Africa, Asia, and Europe are in that district,
including members of widely differing cultures, languages, and
religions.
(2) District 5010 has the distinction of being the physically
largest district in the world, stretching from the Russian Ural
Mountains through all of Alaska and into the Canadian Yukon.
Embracing three countries and eleven time zones, it also represents
extremes of cultural diversity.
It staggers the Rotary mind to imagine the club visitation
schedule of a District Governor in those two districts -- or to
consider the daunting tasks facing organizers of their respective
District Conferences. In these instances, international
understanding is certainly put to the test.
With such monumental potential for MIS-understanding, how shall
Rotary further its goal of world understanding, and its ultimate
goal of world peace? First, we must recognize and admit to our
differences, whether they be differences of national pride,
ethnicity, language, politics, or religion. We must concede that
“our way” may be neither better nor worse than “their way,” only
different. And we must respect those differences, so we may respect
each other.
Then we must focus on our commonalities, not on our
differences. As Rotarians, we have embraced lofty goals of
humanitarian and educational programs through our Rotary Foundation.
Understanding leads to respect, respect to friendship, and
friendship to service. Only with understanding can we be bound
together in the common goals of Rotary friendship and service.