THE
ROLE OF HUMOR IN FELLOWSHIP
By Frank
Deaver
Rotary Club of Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA
It
all began with the posting of a joke on the ROTI list server. From
there the thread began. Over the next three months, more than 30
ROTIans from as many as 14 countries on six continents chimed in
with nearly 200 postings.
Those who didn't follow the thread but tuned in late might have
been astonished at the new words in the vernacular:
Avacondas, Guavamoles, Ava Guavas, Amwags. But each of those
entities came to life in the banter that strained cyberspace with
its mangled definitions.
Who could have anticipated that a lawyer joke would yield such
an expansion of the vocabulary? And would attorneys take offense?
Although there was no indication of professional sensitivity,
readers were reminded that “We all have to be light-hearted enough
to laugh at ourselves, and it's OK to poke fun at stereotypes of
others -- a little bit, and in a gentle, affectionate way.
So directly or indirectly, contributors to the thread poked fun
at each other, at various vocations, at regional customs
(eccentricities?), at languages and weather – well, apparently
anything became fair game. But all in "a gentle, affectionate way."
Speaking of stereotypes (and that’s not necessarily bad), some
distinct personalities surfaced in the postings. First, there was
the original joke-teller. Unless under a different name, he never
contributed further – but one wonders if he watched in amazement
what he had started.
Then there were some who chimed in only once, either as a
latecomer who wondered what was going on, or a contributor of only a
brief witticism.
But critical to the continuity of the thread, two imaginative
types were constant participants, parsing the language in sly,
imaginative, and humorous ways. Without them, the thread would
surely have had a much shorter life. Others opined often enough to
establish a broad base and liven the exchanges.
A cynic might wonder if these people didn’t have better things
to do with their time. But wait. First, they provoked smiles,
chuckles, even guffaws, for countless readers of the thread. And
second, they took a little time for humor, that spice of life that
makes the rest more bearable, even more productive.
The story is told that two lumberjacks were working together,
cutting trees. One swung his axe constantly for an 8-hour day; the
other paused every couple of hours to sit on a stump and sharpen his
axe. Although the first appeared to be working harder, at the end of
the day the other had felled more trees, and was also less fatigued.
There are two lessons in the story. First, an occasional pause
in our work can be refreshing. Second, sharpening our tools
(whatever they be) can improve efficiency.
Surely the same can be said for a generous dose of humor in the
life of a Rotarian.
So what are Avacondas, Guavamoles, Ava Guavas, and Amwags?
Sorry, but they can't be adequately explained in this short
commentary. Elsewhere in this Breadbasket you can "catch up" by
reading the thread (inserted below). And you could "sharpen your
axe" by tuning in often to ROTI chat threads.