Friends Around the World
“From Foes to Friends” (Germany)
by
Frank Deaver, Tuscaloosa Rotary Club
June
6, 1944 — In the largest amphibious military invasion in history,
Allied forces crossed the English Channel, taking the war against
Germany back to the mainland of Europe.
June 6, 1996 — In a gesture of international friendship and
good will, a delegation from Tuscaloosa crossed the English Channel,
taking gifts to German hosts now allied in a sister-city
relationship.
It was, to the day, exactly 52 years later when Al DuPont
crossed the English Channel for the second time. In 1944, he was
one of the nearly 3 million men who participated in the wartime
invasion. In 1996, he was one of the 31-member Tuscaloosa
delegation—about one-third of them Rotarians— who went to confirm
bonds of international friendship.
Those two channel crossings, the second on the exact
anniversary of the first, brought sobering thoughts not only to
DuPont but also to those with whom he shared the remembrance. The
first crossing was in war, the second in peace; the first in
hostility, the second in cordiality.
Those of us who discussed the 52-year contrast were made to
reflect on the nature of human relationships—how instinctive it is
to be understanding, forgiving, friendly. And in our new German
friends, we also found those same instincts.
We were hosted in German homes in June, and in September a
return delegation returned the visit and were our guests in
Tuscaloosa. In the process, we learned much from each other, and
the bonds of friendship inevitably were contrasted to our national
experiences of an earlier generation.
Rotarian Wilhelm Böck, born in 1927, was inducted into the
German army before his 16th birthday, and was one of 60,000 soldiers
taken prisoner at Ulm, shortly before the end of the war. He
remembers that when the city was invaded, an American soldier in a
Sherman tank threw him an orange—not only a rare treat but a gesture
of kindness, he said.
Three months after the end of the war, Wilhelm said, all
prisoners under 18 were released to go home. He returned to school,
but at the University of Munich food was scarce and he said the
American occupation army distributed sausages to students who were
under-weight. He remembers “very fair treatment” by American
soldiers, both during and after the war.
Rotarian Thomas Rösler, born in 1958, said that from his
childhood he heard from his parents “only good things about
America.” His father, he said, was inducted into the German army at
age 19, was captured and imprisoned in the United States until the
war ended. German prisoners in American POW camps, his father told
him, were treated well and had enough to eat. Those under 18 were
given 15 percent more rations, he said.
One act of kindness, related by his father, particularly
impressed Thomas. An American MP had only one cigarette, but he
broke it in half and shared it with his prisoner. The elder Rösler,
Thomas said, spent the rest of his life recalling his good
treatment—that he had clothes “better than back home,” and sometimes
“thought he was dreaming.” He told so many instances of friendship
in the POW camp that his friends said he “should write a book.”
The younger German soldiers who were drafted into service,
Thomas said his father told him, felt that “there were no enemies;
they only had to do their duty.” Many of them, Thomas said, “wanted
to be taken by Americans.” They had not only heard of fair
treatment by the American captors, but that young soldiers without a
political record “would soon be released.”
Both Wilhelm and Thomas also recalled the rebuilding of German
industry. American assistance not only allowed but assisted in
post-war recovery. “That is not normal,” Thomas said. Still, it
established not only economic development and trade opportunities,
but friendly relations as well.
It didn’t take 52 years for wartime hostility to evolve into
post-war sharing, we observed. Still, the reciprocal visits brought
to sister-city partners—both German and American—a realization of
how friendship is a more normal human emotion than hatred. And it
reminded the Rotarians among our delegations of our dedication to
international goodwill and friendship.