“UNDERSTANDING” STARTS WITH YOU
By Frank
Deaver
Rotary Club of Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA
An annual award presented at the RI Convention is the “Rotary Award
for World Understanding and Peace.” Often cited in Rotary is the
goal of promoting “world understanding and goodwill.” This emphasis
may be heard so often that its meaning is inadequately appreciated.
The word “understanding” enters our conversation regularly, but
true understanding is challenging. Much of what we think we
understand is in fact understood only in part, or our
“understanding” is based more on stereotypes than on reality
This is particularly true in a world context, with multiple
cultures, races, languages, religions, and traditions involved. Few
among us could honestly claim to fully understand another society.
Recognition of this fact makes Rotary’s emphasis on “World
Understanding” all the more important, all the more challenging.
Rotary, by its very structure, encourages and facilitates
international understanding. Our organization is not just Rotary,
but Rotary International. We send and receive international
scholars and Group Study Exchange teams. We read The Rotarian
magazine, loaded with information from around the world. Our
District Governor pays at least an annual visit to each club,
interpreting RI programs and goals. And many of our members travel
abroad.
Understanding starts with an open mind, a genuine interest in
knowing about other societies and their ways. While it is tempting
to think of “our way” as the “right way,” we may come to recognize
that “their way” is no less right, and for their society may be
preferable.
As we travel abroad or otherwise interact with people from
another society, we may be tempted to make prejudiced comparisons.
(By the way, the word “prejudice” means “to pre-judge,” or to make
up our minds based on incomplete information or understanding.)
In anticipation of international travel or contacts, Rotarians
can advance World Understanding by considering the “Ten
Commandments” of travel:
1. Cultivate a genuine desire to learn more about the people of
another society. Be sensitive to their feelings and avoid anything
that would offend.
2. Try listening, not just hearing; observing, not just seeing. You
will be the richer for it, and your genuine interest will not go
unnoticed.
3. Develop the habit of asking more questions, not “knowing all the
answers.” If they want to know “how we do it,” they will ask.
4. Recognize that different societies have different mannerisms,
customs, time concepts, thought patterns. Theirs are not inferior
to ours, only different.
5. Avoid being critical of those who don’t speak your language.
You’re in their country, and they speak their own language quite
well. Learn at least a few polite phrases and greetings in their
language.
6. Instead of looking for that beach or mountain paradise, discover
the enrichment of coming to understand another society’s everyday
life.
7. Use your camera, but not to invade the privacy of others.
8. When you are shopping, remember that the “bargain” you obtain may
be the result of poverty-level wages paid the workers. Don’t
compound the exploitation by bragging how little you paid.
9. Do not make promises to people you meet unless you can carry them
through.
10. Spend some time each day reflecting on that day’s experiences,
in an attempt to deepen your understanding.
World Understanding is not so much a destination as an ongoing
journey; not an accomplishment but a process; not an end but a means
to mutually beneficial ends.
Rotarians have already contributed much to “World Understanding
and Goodwill.” It is up to each of us to continue that tradition.